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Dating, Reimagined for Women Who Like Women.
No labels. No pressure. Just genuine connections in a space built for us.
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1000+
People from every corner of the world are finding love with us
200k+
Countless connections made and love stories created every day
10k+
From first dates to forever, our success stories keep growing
What Makes She & HER Different?
Packed with features to help you connect, interact,
and find love effortlessly
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Authenticity First
We're not here for filters, flexing, or forced vibes. She & HER is built for real ones—where you can show up soft, loud, awkward, hot, messy, or magical. No games, no performative profiles. Just space to meet people who actually get you.
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Built-In Safety
Queer folks deserve better than “report this user” and vibes-based trust. We bake safety into everything—from screenshot blocking to community guidelines that actually mean something. Online or IRL, we got you.
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No Labels Required
Love, identity, attraction—it’s all fluid, and we’re not here to pin you down. Whether you’re still figuring it out or solid in your knowing, you belong here. No dropdowns, no categories, no questions asked. Just vibes, connection, and full-spectrum queerness.
Tired of Dating Apps That Don't Get You?
We’ve listened. We’re building the app we’ve all been waiting for.
Here’s a Peek at What’s Coming
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Community forums & local event listings
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AI-powered curated matches
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Interest-based filters, not just swipes
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Respectful and label-optional space
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Clean, minimal UI with warm neutral tones
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Profiles that actually tell a story
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This Isn’t Just a Dating App. It’s a Community.
Whether you're looking for queer love, deep friendship, or just someone who gets it, She & HER is creating space for women, femmes, and nonbinary folks who love women to show up fully—loud, soft, messy, real—and feel safe doing it.
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Absolutely not. We're building a space where queer women, femmes, and nonbinary folks can find each other—whether you're looking for a date, a situationship, a QTPOC game night crew, or someone to unpack “The L Word” trauma with. Dating is just one part of the ecosystem. This is about connection, period.
We’re rolling out city by city, with early access for folks on the waitlist. If you’re tryna be the first to download, slide your info into our list. You’ll get launch updates, event invites, and maybe even a curated match
Nah. Showing up as your full queer self shouldn’t come with a price tag. She & HER is free to join. We might offer extras down the line (think: curated experiences, first dibs on events), but the core community stays open and accessible